Have you ever met someone who's just addictive? I know I have.
I love those kinds of friends, I just can't get enough. And sometimes they're not even good friends, or good persons, or at least not the best ones in the category. I'm aware of that, but I like spending time with them. They're fun and entertaining, sometimes you can't really trust them though.
On the other side, there's this weird kind I like to call annoying friends. How original...Anyway, they're people I can't stand because they are... have I said ANNOYING?! Oops, I think I have. All I can say is their insecurities are all over the place. I try to be patient about this, because I know they're good people, and they're good friends, they just lack confidence. And if someone knows about lacking confidence, that's me (actually I think everyone knows something about the subject). So, I try to be patient because I kinda know what it's like to feel so insecure. I have to admit, sometimes I feel like yelling: "Get over it!". But then again, I wouldn't like someone to yell that at me during one of my insecurity moments.
In the end I wonder what kind am I. I hope I'm addictive but trustworthy. Though I can qualify for annoying a lot of times...
Luckily I have friends that are not annoying, and not addictive. Friends that share same ideas and thoughts with me, so I get along with them really well, and they're really good friends. Those are the perfect kind. Don't you think?
I think I have 2 of that kind, but they're not available at the time. =(
Still if I ever need someone, I know I can ask them for help. I just don't spend time with them lately...
XoXo
Gaby
I love those kinds of friends, I just can't get enough. And sometimes they're not even good friends, or good persons, or at least not the best ones in the category. I'm aware of that, but I like spending time with them. They're fun and entertaining, sometimes you can't really trust them though.
On the other side, there's this weird kind I like to call annoying friends. How original...Anyway, they're people I can't stand because they are... have I said ANNOYING?! Oops, I think I have. All I can say is their insecurities are all over the place. I try to be patient about this, because I know they're good people, and they're good friends, they just lack confidence. And if someone knows about lacking confidence, that's me (actually I think everyone knows something about the subject). So, I try to be patient because I kinda know what it's like to feel so insecure. I have to admit, sometimes I feel like yelling: "Get over it!". But then again, I wouldn't like someone to yell that at me during one of my insecurity moments.
In the end I wonder what kind am I. I hope I'm addictive but trustworthy. Though I can qualify for annoying a lot of times...
Luckily I have friends that are not annoying, and not addictive. Friends that share same ideas and thoughts with me, so I get along with them really well, and they're really good friends. Those are the perfect kind. Don't you think?
I think I have 2 of that kind, but they're not available at the time. =(
Still if I ever need someone, I know I can ask them for help. I just don't spend time with them lately...
XoXo
Gaby
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6 Comments:
Hello. Your blog is really cool. Have a nice day. Peter (from Switzerland but living in Africa)
Hey Gaby,
I went to the post office today and picked your wonderful gift. I ABSO-FREAKIN-LUTELY LOVE IT! I totally forgot that I had requested it. It's the perfect shade of peach. I loved it so much that I blogged about it. Maybe you'll get more requests. I know those people on the East Coast will need them more than I do
Do you know whats more annoying then people with insecurities? People who fake it for attention. I hate that.
I'm friends with a wide circle too - some are "annoying" friends, some are friends that I have a deep connection with, and others are just people I hang out with for fun times - where no serious talk or commitment is required. Weird.
miss misery is right... and actually, maybe it WOULD help if someone yells at you "just bloody get over it and stop whining!". shock therapy, kind of :-)
I like your blog a lot.... found it via Peter/worldman, a friend of mine...
have a good day
Hello. Thank you for coming back to my blog. Yours is very refreshing and I added it on mine. You will find it under "my favorite blogs" with the title "a refreshing forever 17". Peter
worldman, thanks, I liked your blog as well.
geminiwisdom, I'm glad you liked it.
miss misery, I know, those friends are weird. I have some of them, luckily I know that they're not my real friends, just people I know. So, I don't expect much from them.
pumuckl, it would be harsh though. I don't think I could do that, unless I couldn't control myself.
worldman, thanks for adding me, I'll add you to my links, later this week. When I have time.
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